How to express sorrow, continuing life

The widows usually begin to wear black. However, over time, they begin to think when you can change clothes to the usual one. The answer is simple.

A widow dressed in black, this is the usual form of expression of mourning, writes Xrust. Agree, the idea to wear jeans and T -shirts, as if nothing had happened, seems strange. Some tend to believe that the black bandage on the sleeve will be enough.

The history of black sorrow rises to the Victorians. They provided us with a bear’s service, overdoing with an ostentatious grief. After all, it took a year to wear black, avoid noisy events.

Such a tradition led to the opposite extreme: to expect a quick return to normal life. Those who push the mourners to release from accepted norms cause pain.

In principle, psychologists believe, enough after a time that you choose for yourself, you can leave a black symbol. He will warn strangers from the offer noisily spend time. It can be a bandage on the sleeve.