How not to make enemies with a congratulatory cord

as a congratulatory postcard turns into a stumbling block in communicating with friends. It turns out that there is a rule that prevents the transformation of the best friends into dangerous enemies.

a couple who lived for twenty years, was friends with spouses from the plan, writes Xrust. Once all these husbands and wives studied together in St. Petersburg. Everything turned out so that marital ties could connect the representatives of the current couples. Well, it happens, they are friends, then get married, get married. In close companies, only marriages are usually expected, and then everything goes awry and other combinations are sent down the aisle.

However, decades have passed, and suddenly a «stranger» to a husband suddenly has the right to send a congratulatory card to a «stranger» to his wife. The feelings on old yeast, so to speak, were reserved. It happens that the initiative belongs to a “alien” wife.

If such an individual congratulation falls on the eyes of the ignored side, then there is tension between couples. As a rule, the offended release knuckles, promoting the confrontation.

In general, in order not to lose friends, prohibit yourself individual congratulations. By the way, etiquette also requires this.